All who present themselves in one way may not be able to be present in that and other ways – KC
Accept people where they are and who they are. Accept this information and address within yourself how this informs your moving forward, with them and with yourself. Because you may not be able to continue a relationship doesn’t mean that it has to end disrespectfully or without dignity. It also doesn’t mean that the relationship won’t be able to be picked up at a different interval and time. I personally do not believe all who know better do better but, I do believe all who want to sow into knowing better and engage the effort in doing better will eventually reap better. I had the privilege of speaking with a few dear friends this weekend and one earlier this morning. One of the topics was about being present in our own lives as well as being able to be present for others. Despite my intention I can wrap myself in a pretty present 🎁 bow and if I don’t have the energy to be present, it doesn’t matter how I’ve presented myself, I won’t have it to give. So that means I need to make adjustments in my own life so then I can present better. Are your words aligned with your actions? Are you able to be present for others or is it the appearance of presence? Investing in ourselves to ask these questions even if the answers can be difficult and uncomfortable are necessary if we are really about working towards the Betterment of ourselves as well as for others. Live Well. Do Well. Be Well 💙💜