I was in a store and saw an extremely attractive older man behind the counter. I debated within myself on saying this, for the potential fear of it being viewed as my “hitting on him” or otherwise seemingly inappropriate. But that feeling inward wouldn’t let up and so I did. “Excuse me Sir, I’m hoping this isn’t inappropriate or negatively received as that isn’t my intent but you’re an extraordinarily attractive person.” He looked surprised and gasped. “I really needed that, especially today. I never hear things like that. Thank you!” He went onto say, “…you must hear that often…” which got me thinking the following: #1 – we can’t allow the broken bits of some keep us from connecting with others. Suppose he did think I was hitting on him, so what? I wasn’t and knew that. Let the intent of the matter be the focus. And #2 – sometimes we think what we have to offer isn’t enough. But often that “little” that we view is all we have may be hugely impactful. Caring is sharing and that includes affirming and complimentary words, thoughts and deeds💜
